viernes 29 de mayo de 2009

Contigo en la distancia...


Esta mañana despues de despertar, me dirigi como muchas veces lo he hecho a la cocina, y extrañe a mi amor Bill y a la calida compañia de mi familia o amigos, cuando me desayuno sola veo qu mi platillo es diferente, es rapido o poco elaborado, muy diferente al que cocino cuando tengo compañia.

Hoy solo desayune un licuado, claro con vitaminas para darme un poco de energia para las primeras horas del dia.

En cambio cuando se esta acompañada el desayuno es una fiesta, y el refri se abre constantemente para ir sacando cada ingrediente, poner la mesa, cortar las papas, freir el chorizo, calentar el comal, batir los huevos, sacar el jugo, pero nada es mas gratificante como comer acompañada, mirar a los ojos, sonreir... toda esa actividad hace que el pricipio del dia sea aun mas alegre!

El tiempo en la cocina se disfruta tanto porque uno esta platicando del plan para ese dia, del sueño que se tuvo esa noche, y la comida tiene un sabor a magia.

Sin embargo hoy me toco desayunar algo mas sencillo y a mi corazon le toco suspirar y pensar que aunque lejos esten, estan conmigo en la distancia...

jueves 14 de agosto de 2008

Aqui estoy!


Cada dia estamos llenos de obligaciones y responsabilidades para poder cumplir con estandares o minimas exigencias en nuestros trabajos, con nuestros esposos, con la familia sanginea, con la familia politica, con la sociedad, etc...

Pero quien se ha puesto a pensar en lo que los demas tienen que hacer por uno, para que uno sea feliz!!!

Sii el dinero es importante, tanto que lo que yo pueda necesitar se necesita de este para lograrlo, una casa, un carro, un viaje, una cena romantica, un vino, una tarjeta, flores, inversion en mi arreglo personal como son Ropa, Salon de belleza, Spa, Gimnasio, medicina y atencion medica, etc.... claro todo eso representa el minimo exigible.... vaya minimo!!!! Y claro todo eso se logra, pero en el proceso... que mas necesito???!!!

Pero que es lo que mas pesa en estos momentos para mi??? .... definitivamente son los pequeños detalles, esos detalles que nos hacen sonreir, que nos hacen sentir vivos, que nos hacen sentir amados, que nos hacen sentir que existimos, que nos hacen sentir completos, que nos hacen sentir felices, que nos hacen sentir unicos!! Si que nos hacen sentir y punto!!

Que estoy haciendo yo para recibir eso mismo a cambio?

Esta bien pues tendre que empezar pensando en que es lo que yo quiero para mi... y eso mismo hare para mi sere amado!

1) Me fascina que me de un beso por las noches y tambien por la mañana.
2) Me fascina escuchar.
3) Me fascina que me escriba un poema de amor.
4) Me fascina que me cante una cancion al oido.
5) Me fascina recibir un abrazo calido aun cuando estoy enojada.
6) Me fascina caminar tomada de la mano.
7) Me fascina que me abran la puerta.
8) Me fascina que acerquen la silla.
9) Me fascina que me diga Te Amo.
10)Me fascina que me abrace sin motivo.
11)Me fascina que acaricie mi cabello.
12) Me fascina que huela mi piel.
13) Me fascinan mil caricias jugetonas.
14) Me fascinan los secretos.
15) Me fascinan las sorpresas.
16) Me fascina ver el cielo lleno de estrellas acompañada por El.
17) Me fascinan mil besos.
18) Me fascina hablar de nuestro futuro.
19) Me fascina escuchar que te gusta de mi.
20) Me fascina escuchar que no te gusta de mi.
21) Me fascina que me trate como reina.
22) Me fascina que pida mi opinion.
23) Me fascina que me concienta.
24) Me fascina que me mire a los ojos.
25) Me fascina que me abrace mientras duermo.
26) Me fascina que me pregunte si estoy agusto.
27) Me fascina que me llame para decirme que me extraña.
28) Me fascina que me dedique una cancion.

Y si tu me estas leyendo cuentame que es lo que mas te fascina que haga por ti, para que tu sientas que aqui estas???

Abrazos y hasta pronto.

miércoles 20 de febrero de 2008

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jueves 14 de febrero de 2008

Día de San Valentín en Mexico

About Love and Friendship

"La amistad es lluvia de flores preciosas"

"Friendship is like a shower of precious flowers"
Aztec Poem

El Día del Amor y la Amistad

As this fragment of a beautiful Aztec poem illustrates, since pre-Columbian times Mexicans regard friendship very highly, considering it a precious gift of life. Nowadays in Mexico, as in the rest of the world, we celebrate on February 14 El Día de San Valentín popularly named El Día del Amor y la Amistad- the day of love and friendship.

All over town there are balloon vendors offering their colorful heart shaped declarations of love, for most of them have written on them "Te Amo" -I love you- "Para mi amor"-for my love, or "Felicidades" -congratulations. Delicious chocolates, as well as flowers, especially red roses, and greeting cards are also sold in every store.

If in Mexico, don't even try to go to a restaurant with out a reservation made weeks before. Couples of all ages go out for dinner on this special date.

As you can see, El Día del Amor y la Amistad is commemorated in Mexico in a way very similar to the manner in which the rest of the world celebrates, but surely, friendship and marriage had different expressions in pre-Columbian times.

Let us explore how an Aztec wedding was performed.

An Aztec Wedding

Aztec society was very structured and established rules that regulated almost all aspects of life. Regarding marriage, a young Aztec boy was able to get married only after he reached the age of 20. Most of them got married between the ages of 20 and 22.

Marriage was arranged between families, which meant that the young couple had little say in the matter, as it was in most ancient societies. Of course there were some exceptions, and sometimes a young couple fell in love , and with the authorization of both families got married.

The first requirement to fulfill, in order to celebrate the matrimony, was that the young man had to complete his education and obtain permission from his teachers to leave school.

His family would have to offer a banquet for the teachers, in which they would ask for the necessary permission. They would have to prepare many dishes for this occasion including tamales and cacao or chocolate.

Afterwards, the old relatives of the groom, his father and the men of the neighborhood spoke to the educators while showing them an ax "that symbolizes the desire of this young man to cut the ties that bind him to you, since he wants in his heart to get married; take this ax and permit our son to be liberated."

The teachers proceeded to accept the ax as a symbol of their consent and after delivering a sermon in which they admonished the young man to always obey the gods, to be honorable, to be a good provider for his wife and family and a brave warrior when at war, they left the house. ¡Obviously without any hard feelings!

The Young Bride

The parents of the groom carefully selected the bride for their son, requesting the advice of the most respected fortunetellers. The wizards would study the signs under which each of the chosen girls was born, and then suggest the ideal bride for him.

A couple of old women from the neighborhood called cihuatlanque, requested on behalf of the groom's parents, permission from the girl's family for the marriage to take place. Traditionally the first time they visited the family, the parents denied their consent. On the second visit, a couple of days later, and after a family council, their authorization was granted. Once again they feasted for several days, happy to have the two families joined by their children's wedding.

The date for the ceremony was selected, once again by the fortunetellers, so the couple would have the best possible future together!

The Wedding Ceremony

On that special date, selected with so much love and faith in the promising future, the wedding was celebrated at night at the groom's home. On that day, but in the afternoon, the bride participated on a ritual bath, washed her hair. Then she had her arms and legs decorated with red feathers, and her face was painted with a yellow pigment.

The boy's family arrived and after telling her that they were very happy to have her be a part of their family, and showering her with presents, they all guided the girl to her new home. They walked through the streets, carrying torches, and singing all the way.

When they arrived, the girl was handed an incensory. The boy welcomed his bride at the door holding an other incense burner. They exchanged this incense as a symbol of respect to one another.

They entered singing and dancing to their new home, where the old women, the cihuatlanque, would tie their blouses together.

Then they were formally declared man and wife, and of course, another bountiful feast was given to celebrate such a fortunate event.

jueves 1 de noviembre de 2007

Day of the Dead / El Día de los Muertos


From the beginning of time, man has felt the need to explain the mystery of life and death. Many civilizations and cultures have created rituals to try and give meaning to human existence.

Where do we come from?
Why does life end?
Is there "life" after death?
If so, what kind of "life"?

Can we do something while alive so we can enjoy "life" after death?

These are some of the questions man has asked himself in order to understand our finite existence on this earth.

To the indigenous peoples of Mexico, death was considered the passage to a new life and so the deceased were buried with many of their personal objects, which they would need in the hereafter. Many times even their pets were sacrificed so they would accompany their masters on their long journey.

From pre Columbian times, El Día de los Muertos, the Day of the Dead has been celebrated in Mexico, and other Latin countries. This is a very special ritual, since it is the day in which the living remember their departed relatives. Sometimes, when people of other cultures hear for the first time about the celebration of the Day of the Dead, they mistakenly think it must be: gruesome, terrifying, scary, ugly and sad. Nothing further from the truth, Day of the Dead is a beautiful ritual in which Mexicans happily and lovingly remember their loved relatives that have died. Much like when we go to a graveyard to leave some lovely flowers on a tomb of a relative.

On November 1st and 2nd Mexico celebrates the Day of the Dead, and there are two very special places where this ritual is specially impressive: Mixquic, a small town in Mexico City, and in Janitzio, a charming little island in the state of Michoacan.

The first inhabitants of Michoacan, the state where Janitzio is located, thought that because of the extraordinary beauty of this lake, it was the door to heaven and that through it the gods used to come down to earth.

One of the vastest and richest kingdoms of pre-Hispanic times was established in this Mexican state, the Purepecha Empire, which was able to maintain its independence from the powerful Aztecs, who at the time had control over most of Mesoamerica, Middle America.

Like the rest of the pre-Hispanic civilizations, these people succumbed to the Spanish conquerors, which imposed their customs, their language and their Catholic religion. The natives acquired these new cultural elements but blended and adapted them to their own culture; from this fusion new beliefs and ritual were born, such as the Celebration of the Day of the Dead.

Michoacan is probably one of the most representative of the merging of the two cultures, observed in their magnificent Spanish architecture, its spacious plazas or squares, and their folklore and religious fervor of their traditions.

Towards the last days of October, the entire region prepares for the great fiesta of Los Días de Muertos, the Days of the Dead. The square fills with stands that offer all types of colorful figures allusive to death, the most popular made of sugar.

Markets are filled with the cempasúchil flower; this orange marigold was the flower that the Aztecs used to remember their dead by. Its color represents the tones of earth and is used to guide the souls to their homes and altars.

Many families grow their own cempasúchil, believing that doing so is more appropriate for their offerings. Through their work and their care, these flowers grow and will finally adorn their ofrendas and their tombs.

Very early in October, all over the country, bakeries offer the delicious Pan de Muerto, Day of the Dead bread, made with flour, butter, sugar, eggs, orange peel, anise and yeast. The bread is adorned with strips of dough simulating bones and at the top a small round piece of dough that symbolizes teardrops. These breads are placed on the altars or ofrendas, and are also taken to the tombs in the graveyard.

Another traditional dish prepared for the celebration is the tasty Calabaza en Tacha, Sweet Pumpkin, a dessert prepared with pumpkin, cinnamon, and piloncillo, dark sugar cones.

Janitzio is one of the islands on lake Patzcuaro, with 1,500 inhabitants. Little white houses all with red tile roofs crowd the island, and at the summit the stone statue of one of the fathers of Mexico’s Independence, José María Morelos, dominates the view.

To get to the island it is necessary to take launches that constantly go to and fro Janitzio, carrying and bringing passengers as well as provisions and merchandise.

There is no busier times for the launches that on the days of the dead.

On the eve of El Día de Muertos, the boats are loaded with people that are very busy taking the flowers and essential articles for the celebrations.

The island is dressing up with beauty and mysticism!

On the lake, one can also see the fishermen with their traditional nets that grace the view. They are called Butterfly Nets. Watching the fishermen go out in groups is a bewitching spectacle, particularly during the early ours of the morning, with the mist and the calming stillness of the lake.

The people of Janitzio have conserved this form of fishing, as well as other millenarian customs and traditions that are part of the enchantment of this island. Especially distinctive is the way in which the women dress , and their methods of cooking.

In addition to fishing, they complement their economy with the production of handicrafts for sale to the many visitors that come to Janitzio, and in many small inns they offer the delicious pescado blanco, white fish, unique to Lake Patzcuaro.

Many of the locals work and study outside the island. Since there is only an elementary school on the islet, when the kids go on to high school they have to attend schools in Patzcuaro. You can imagine how striking it is to see the young students on their rowboats, crossing the lake early in the morning to get to school.

By October 31st, all the houses and shops, as well as the docks are decorated with cempasuchil flowers and fruits from this region. The whole community participates enthusiastically in the preparations of this festivity!

Ofrendas are set up in the houses for their dead relatives. Generally ofrendas are set up on a table covered with a tablecloth and papel picado. They are decorated with sugar skulls, candles, cempasuchil flowers, and paper mache skeletons. Plates with the favorite foods of their dead relatives are also set on the ofrenda. Some have also liquor and cigarettes. On the ofrendas for the deceased children they place toys in addition to the food.

Characteristic of this region are the wooden arches that the families create and adorn with cempasuchil and fruits for the tombs in the cemetery. A very interesting tradition is that for the first three years that follow the passing away of a person, every November first, it is the godparents of the deceased who decorate the arch. When they finish, they go to the parents’ house and lovingly offer it to them.

During the morning
of November 1st, the ceremony in honor of the Angelitos takes place in the cemetery.

The little angels or angelitos are the children that died and that could never experience the happiness and sorrows of adulthood.

Very early the bells of the church start ringing, calling children’s souls and the living relatives that will attend the ceremony.

At 6:00 A.M., in the small chapel of Janitzio, mass has already begun. Remember, this is fundamentally a Catholic ritual. After mass, the women and children go to the graveyard to clean and decorate the tombs. They bring with them flowers, bread and fruits in baskets covered with napkins that they embroidered themselves, as well as the copal, incense, that they will burn so that the aroma will help guide the returning souls.

Each family brings with them in honor of their deceased relatives.

A beautiful view enriches this mystical moment… in the distance, from the graveyard the fishermen can be seen with their canoes starting their working day. The lake is so peaceful, as if welcoming the spirits that are returning home.

Slowly, and quietly, the cemetery begins to fill up. The music of a band can be heard slowly approaching the graveyard. It is a family that is carrying an arch accompanied by the band. Their son died a few months before, and this morning is the first Day of the Dead that they will be honoring him. This is why they have brought a band with them.

Music resonates fills the burial ground.

Around nine in the morning the ritual in honor of the deceased children ends. In a couple of hours, at nightfall, the most impressive celebration will begin, the ritual in which the souls of the deceased adults are honored.

It is surprising how in such a little island, thousands and thousands of visitors will arrive in order to witness this beautiful rite.

In the preceding hours, the carpenters laboriously work to set a stage for the folkloric dances that will be performed as part of the celebrations.

At night, with everything ready, the dances begin. The Danza de los Viejitos, Dance of the Old Men, representative dance of this region. In pre-Hispanic times this dance was performed as a ritual honoring the Sun.

Another popular dance is the Pescado Blanco, White Fish, through which the inhabitants of Janitzio express their gratitude to the lake, since fishing is their most important economical activity.

Also at night, as a way of expressing their gratitude to God for all the blessings they have been given, the fishermen go out to the lake with their canoes, lighting the way with torches and carrying out an impressive ritual with their butterfly nets.

At midnight it is the graveyard of the island the place in which living and dead will reunite once again.

The bell at the entrance rings all night long, calling the souls to return and enjoy the splendid ceremony. It is mainly the women and children who silently find the tombs of their relatives, on which they place the lovely embroidered napkins and set candles, the flowers and food that their dead so much enjoyed when alive.

This is how the night goes by, with prayers and chants from the women and children, while the men silently observe what goes on. Their songs and prayers are elevated to the sky, begging for the eternal rest of the souls and for the happiness of the living.

The essence of this beautiful ritual is to lovingly and happily remember the dead relatives, their life, and in this way, give meaning and continuity to human existence.

The Day of the Dead is a grand celebration of life itself!

And just for fun I took a picture for Halloween 2007!

lunes 29 de octubre de 2007

Reign over ME


After losing his wife and kids in the 9/11 terrorist attacks, Charlie (Adam Sandler) goes into a severe depression and retreats from the world. Luckily, he runs into his old college roommate, Alan (Don Cheadle), who feels sorry for his old friend and does his best to draw him back out.

THIS IS AN EXCELLENT MOVIE!!!

I hope this move soon comes to Mexico so my friends and family can see it, simply because I learned through this move that you can duel indefenitly and not live.

Hope you will enjoy this move as much as I did!

"LIVE EVERY DAY LIKE IT'S THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE"

Love you guys!!

martes 23 de octubre de 2007

Happy Birthday Sidy!!



Que la pases super bien Chidy al lado de tus Familia y amigos que te queremos!!

Y claro no podian faltar las inolvidables Mañanitas con Vicente Fernandez para ti que eres super Mexicana de corazon como yo!!


Un besote amiga y que la pases de lo lindo!!